if my words are harsh tell me

if  my words are harsh  just tell me  am  and  open person to anyone that  don't think of me   in the  wrong way  and  sometimes i can be harsh  because  my pet peeve is  i don't like people talking behind my back   if  they have  something to say to me  they can say it  to my face   and  sometimes   people don't know  when am  mad  and they know i  take my anger  out on other  people  and  if  my  words are harsh to other   people i don't need to tell them i would just  keep my mouth shut and don't say anything  and  if you don't  know me well  like other people  you should probable  get to  know me well  like other  people  do i wont  hold  anything    to you .